Then, and from a distance, I watched them interact...and it all made perfect sense.

A few days ago, I shared a story on social media.

Enough people reached out to me about that story made sense to them, we decided to share it on our blog.

Our goal is to encourage and inspire. We hope this helps.

My 11 year old wants to invite an 18 year old high school graduate to everything.

At first, I thought it was a little strange. Why does he keep asking if Cody can come to our house to play Blitz Ball, watch his little-league games, or to play video games with him?

Concerns ran through my head...

  * Does my 11 year old son have any 11 year old friends?

  * Has something happened with one of his classmates that I wasn't aware of?

  * Is this normal behavior?



Then, and from a distance, I watched them interact as Eli congratulated his 18 year old friend on a basketball game well-played.

...and what an 18 year old did for my 11 year old...it all made perfect sense.

  * He smiled

  * He slowed down to acknowledge him

  * He made eye contact

  * He chose to speak 11 year old language…not 18 year old small talk

  * He asked questions

  * He showed genuine interest

  * And he "frosted the cake" with a high-five

You have the ability to leave a lasting impression... no matter your age, gender, race, color, height, weight, shoe-size, or even the amount of time invested.

Remain Encouraged.

 - Brian