Connected and Lonely

Somehow, we live in the most “connected” time in human history...yet, it seems that loneliness keeps growing.

That title sounds like the header on a dating app. Never the less...


In a world with more connection than ever, I see a lot of loneliness....

At 27, I walked away from New York City and moved back to a farm in Kansas.
It was just a few weeks after 9/11.

To some, it looked like I was going backwards.
But at times, what's perceived as going backwards…thank God...is actually graduating forward.

That decision started a chapter of life I never could have scripted.
The next 25 years of...
• A 20-year marriage
• Four really enjoyable kids
• The honor to build so many deep & meaningful relationship
• The privilege (and challenge) of building businesses

And now at 51, I find myself in a season of reflection.

What value do I really bring?   (Everyone will have their own answer to that question.)

Where is "real" value truly created?

But life has given me enough extraordinary highs and difficult lows to learn a few things along the way:
* People thrive on encouragement.
* Hard things are worth doing.
* Everyone has a gift worth sharing.
* Stories connect us all.
* We need someone genuine beside us.


Strangely enough, somehow, we live in the most “connected” time in human history...yet, it seems that loneliness keeps growing.


In a world that leans harder into AI, I wonder if we're risking losing the very thing that makes us human:      Real connection.

That’s why experiences like "summer camp" move me so much.
They share the courage to trust, laugh, struggle, and grow.

This next chapter of my life is about helping others understand their gifts and strengths. Helping them to achieve balance and a deeper connection.

Do you see what I see?
A world scared to reveal, share, and live authentically. A world protecting itself through isolation, separation and the perception of power. Fearful we may not be in complete control...in every situation.

But the real power comes when we're at peace not being in control.

Lets talk.



Remain encouraged,

Brian

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